http://www.simmuse.net

Simmuse is finally open. It’s such a relieving feeling, to know all that work we did is paying off. We worked quite some time on this, but with the recent uproar of drama at SCF we knew it was time to open it. Everything has spiraled so out of control there, it truly does feel like a lost cause. We’d had this feeling for some time, we all did, some dark looming thing that was slowly tearing us apart there.

I can only hope simmuse will be the start of something DIFFERENT. A change for all of us. Leave the petty arguments behind, like I said on the board… we’ve graduated scf highschool. We all hope that simmuse can be a place of expression and what a sims forum should be about, building up the community and friendships between us all. Contests is the whole point of the forum, obviously, but we wish a sense of belonging for everyone, a community we will try to grow and flourish as time passes by. We want your problems, your issues to be addressed, and resolved. We want you to feel like you have an opinon and it matters, even if someone disagrees. Respect is key and it is what we all need.

On that note….

I would like everyone to know I am starting fresh. I’m leaving the past and all the bickery and drama behind and starting anew. If there’s something I learned from all of this is that it’s just not worth it. Tears, annoyance, aggrivation over something that should be fun, something that should be a pasttime isn’t worth it at all.

I apologize to anyone i ever hurt or offended or attacked in any way before.

Truly.

1. What does the year have in store for me?
Bills, Bills, Bills - Destiny’s Child

GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!

2. What does my love life look like?
Chop Me up - Justin Timberlake

3. What do I say when Life gets hard?
Total Eclipse of the Heart - Bonnie Tyler

TURN AROUNDDDDD BRITEEEEEEE EYES!!!!!!!! EVERI NAO N DEN I FALL APART

4. What do I think of when I get up in the morning?
Gypsy Part of Town - Gogol Bordello

5. What song will I dance to at my wedding?
Piece of Me - Britney Spears

HORHORHOROROHRHORORHOR

6. What do I want as a career?
Sheena is A Parasite - The Horrors

I EM A CHAMPION OF SELF RELIANCE. AS SOON AS I NEED I KNO JUST WER DA KNIFE IZ.

7. My favorite saying.

Killing Lonliness - HIM

k embarassing.

8. My favorite place.
I’m Coming Out - Diana Ross

WEREV IT IS IM…….COMING…OUT!!

9. What do I think of my parents?

Help! - The Beatles

HOROROHROR

10. Where would I go on a first date?
underneath it all - no doubt

underneath da clothes duh

11. My drug of Choice.
four winds - bright eyes

BLOWWWWWW

12. Describe Myself?
Jesus Christ - Brand New

LKSDJFLKSDJLFKSJL

13. What do I enjoy doing the most?
Fuck on Cocaine - DJ Caffeine

?!?!? I SWARE NOT

14. The song that best describes the president?
People are People - Depeche Mode

15. What is my state of mind like at the moment?
Like A Lady - The Sounds

lol kiss every man while you still can like a lady

16. How will I die?
Throw it On Me - Timbaland V The Hives

….:O THROWN ON ME

17. The song I will put as the header of this Journal.

Peron Mein Bandhan Hai -Shahrukh Khan & Aishwarya Rai

HEY.

I need a bit of a public opinion here.

Do you enjoy challenges in contests or do you see them as just a hassle/waste of time?

If the challenges were not photoshoots would you be more interested in them, or nay?

]]> http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/2008/05/23/which-do-you-prefer/feed/ Kait http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/retail-therapy/ http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/retail-therapy/#comments Fri, 16 May 2008 07:14:09 +0000 kkkaitlyn http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/?p=17

I do a lot of pointless shopping.

It all starts with needing one thing.

And then I soon spiral out of complete control.

I pretend to justify everything I buy with a reason but really it’s just because I fucking can buy it, so I do.

Simple, black hoodie to wear at work that zips up. Check! But oh… what else can I get?!

Fucking stupid cute shirts! Heck yes!

Shorts to overcome my fear of the skin on my legs!

Because rolling up my jeans is getting horrible

To wear with all the above if I ever change out of sweatpants!

There was no point to buying any of these but I did. I do this so much, too! From food to clothes to games I just grab whatever I want/can, don’t care how it comes about. Doesn’t pay off for the credit card but hey at least i’ll be cute!!!!!! dats all that matters gurls!!

I hope I have enough money for rice krispies tommorow.

edit; bought more today.

(cos its wyoming helo!)

IM RLLY DONE NAO

]]> http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/2008/05/16/retail-therapy/feed/ Kait http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/2008/05/11/we-interupt-this-broadcast-4-a-very-imporant-message/ http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/2008/05/11/we-interupt-this-broadcast-4-a-very-imporant-message/#comments Sun, 11 May 2008 22:03:10 +0000 kkkaitlyn http://kkaitlyn.wordpress.com/?p=16

Stalkers will not take no for an answer.

They refuse to believe that a victim is not interested in them or will not rekindle their relationship and often believe that the victim really does love them, but just doesn’t know it and needs to be pushed into realizing it. As long as they continue pursuing their victim, the stalker can convince themselves they haven’t been completely rejected yet.

Stalkers display an obsessive personality.

They are not just interested in, but totally obsessed with the person they are pursuing. Their every waking thought centers on the victim, and every plan the stalker has for the future involves the victim. Ask yourself this. Is the person totally involved in and completely overwhelmed with pursuing someone who has no and never will have any interest in him or her?

Along with obsessive thinking, they also display other psychological or personality problems and disorders. They may suffer from erotomania, paranoia, schizophrenia, and delusional thinking. According to Professor R. Meloy, “these stalkers have rigid personalities and maladaptive styles. These disorders in themselves are very stable and not treatable.” There are drugs to treat certain specific mental disorders, but stalkers, when given the choice, seldom continue with their medication or treatment.

Stalkers are above average in intelligence and are usually smarter than the run of the mill person with mental problems.

They will go to great lengths to obtain information about their victims or to find victims who have secretly moved. They have been known to hack into computers, tap telephone lines, take jobs at public utilities that allow them access to the victims or information about the victims, and even to travel thousands of miles and spend thousands of dollars to gain information about or find their victims. Stalkers many times use their intelligence to throw others off their trail.

Most stalkers don’t have any relationship outside the one they are trying to re-establish or the one they have imagined exists between them and their victim.

Because they are usually loners, stalkers become desperate to obtain this relationship.

Stalkers don’t display the discomfort or anxiety that people should naturally feel in certain situations.

Normal individuals would be extremely embarrassed to be caught following other people, going through their trash looking for information about them, leaving obscene notes, and other inappropriate behavior displayed by stalkers. Stalkers, however, don’t see this as inappropriate behavior, but only as a means to gain the person’s love.

Stalkers often suffer from low self-esteem, and feel they must have a relationship with the victim in order to have any self worth.

Preoccupations with other people almost always involve someone with weak social skills and low self-esteem.

Few stalkers can see how their actions are hurting others.

They display other sociopathic thinking in that they cannot learn from experience, and they don’t believe society’s rules apply to them. Most stalkers don’t think they’re really threatening, intimidating, or even stalking someone else. They think they’re simply trying to show the victims that they’re the right one for them. To the victims of stalking it is like a prolonged rape.

Stalkers, like rapists, want absolute control over their victims. They don’t regard what they’re doing as a crime, or even wrong. To them it is true love, with the exception that the victim doesn’t recognize it yet. With enough persistence, stalkers believe they will eventually convince the victims of their love.

Stalkers many times have a mean streak and will become violent when frustrated. How violent? Often deadly.

- Common Traits of Stalkers

Calling all your contestents whores isn’t cute or funny. It’s annoying and degrading to everyone in that contest, and in case anyone has forgetten - your contest is not the world and no one has any obligation to it or you. I almost want to drop out just because of that comment, no matter how ridiculous it may be for me to want to do that, a comment like that is just…. rude.
Sort of thing that makes you not want to be there.

If you didn’t steal anything, you wouldn’t feel the need to defend it.

Think about it. Lmfao.

WHEN WILL PEOPLE STOP PLAYING FAVORITES WHEN IT COMES TO JUDGING?

Or even just offer CONSTRUCTIVE thoughts and criticism and not just MOCK a photo someone did?

Reminds me why I thought seriously about leaving scf but then decided to give it one more chance (a chance that obviously hasn’t proven itself.)

Am i the only one who thinks this set is completely boring and………… LAME?

EVERYONE ELSE IS PISSING THEMSELVES OVER IT AND I DONT GET IT.

I guess if you’re furnishing Belle’s room from Beauty & the Beast, it could possibly come in handy. Otherwise? Not so much.